to "Lu" it may concern.

So you posted a picture of my friends, a couple at Cathay, made rude comments about the guy's appearance and my female friend's dressing. People you don't know and never spoken to.

I commented and tried to be friendly, even though it was obvious you were insulting my friends.

My friends are also on Facebook, the boyfriend saw on my news feed and asked me to pass his response. If you don't want people to see, you should seriously change your face profile privacy settings.

You deleted the messages from my friend that I posted, and then you messaged me on msn, that it was inappropriate of me to post my friend's reply. So it was appropriate for you to sneak pictures of people, make rude remarks of them. But it was inappropriate of me to offer them a chance to respond to you?

Then you started ranting at me accusing "us", of being prejudiced against SPGs. You said: "We hate you because you're the SPG that all of us hate."

HELLO? My best female buddy also only prefers to date Caucasian men. I've got no problem nor quarrel with people's preferences, as long as they do not put down others.

Next, you asked me to tell my friends that "you have a Caucasian boyfriend who is rich, earns more money than my friends will ever earn and stays in a Condo at Orchard Road, which my friends will never get to step into."

I told you, I'll just remove you from my Facebook list, which I promptly did when I got home. Not because I'm embarrassed or anything.



Truth be told, I just feel sorry for you. I don't claim to be a Saint, I've done plenty of bad stuff that I'm not proud of. As you can note from my blog title. (Thank you captain obvious!) But I accept it as the past, for whatever reasons or motivations I had.

You're so insecure about yourself having a Caucasian boyfriend, who really might be the nicest guy in the world and treats you like a princess, treasures you and pampers you. But you had to talk about the "money and the condo".

So from your response, It's clear what's the real reason, you are with your boyfriend to begin with.



I have no issues with people wanting to marry rich, or looking for a rich boyfriend. Let's not kid ourselves, that the women just want the security of having a swimming pool filled with gold coins to swim in.

It's not so different as a guy wanting sex and wanting a beautiful, hot, sexy, pretty girlfriend/wife. Again let's not kid ourselves, that the guy only wants to hold the beautiful hot sexy girlfriend/wife's hand.

You're unhappy and afraid of about being judged as being an SPG, but you have no problems judging other people. So tell me, who died and made you the bitch queen?

You have a problem with my friend's dressing as being obscene, yet you have no problems showing off your ample cleavage. You're being hypocritical, no?

I like cleavage, most guys enjoy looking at it! So are short shorts as long as the girl looks nice wearing them!



I know plenty of Caucasian expats who come here, have already heard stories from their friends who've been to Singapore.

"Asian girls in certain clubs are easy, the women throw themselves at Caucasian expats." Just exactly like the Thai discos in Thailand, that everyone talk about.

The story is: "All a Caucasian guy has to do is to spend a little money in those clubs, the women will cozy up to them, and try to fuck their way into a relationship with them hopefully to get the guy to marry them." The Caucasian expats barely have to try. They get sex and company for the few years that they are here, and when the time comes to leave Singapore, some of them just head back home to their wives/gfs back in their home country.

I'm not saying all of them are like that, but plenty come here already with the impression, that they come here and immediately become "hot shit on a stick with rice" because the girls here are easy.

I would like to give special note that: I've got nice Caucasian friends who met their soul mate here and got married.



I guess for the insecure people, the need to prove themselves to possess something, that they believe is better than others, to reassure themselves is pretty common. There are a multitude of reasons why people choose to be with, who they want to be with. It's kinda silly to ask others, what their opinion is because generally the more honest friends, might say things that you won't like to hear. ( duh.. then don't ask! )

Would you like it if Prince Charles asked you what you think of his "dream girl", that he ended his marriage for?

Do you think he will like your answer?



Kinda sad that the "Pinkerton Syndrome" is still so common here in Singapore. I'm pretty sure there are rich successful guys from every country or ethnicity.

I don't see any race or ethnicity as being superior in any way.
Ok ok... maybe except for the average length of the male anatomy.

So far I've dated females from China, but mostly Singaporean females, one of which was of mixed ethnicity. (If i remember correctly she was half pinoy.)

Doesn't mean I look down on the other women of any race/ethnicity.
Maybe I just don't get along with them.
Heck! MAYBE THEY DON'T CONSIDER ME SUITABLE AT ALL! (the list of my faults shall remain secret!)



Don't expect to post people's pictures and make rude comments about others on the internet and expect to get away with it!

Don't fuck with people, they will Fuck BACK!

Do you really want to end up like the girl in this video? ( refer particularly to 3:50 to 3:57 )